Are you and your partner aroused at the idea adding another male or female into the rotation?  I feel like every couple should try this atleast once. If you believe that your partner only has eyes for you or has never fantasized about someone else. My apologies however that is a little misguided. Its natural to look at other people, you cannot tell me that you don’t notice a hot girl or really cute guy walking down the street. See? You were checking them out. It’s the same thing with sex it’s normal to fantasize about others, hell I encourage it. Why do it in secret? It does not mean that their undying love isn’t there. It’s fun to try new things. New people.

This is something that should be talked about constantly before jumping into it. As a couple you should fantasize and getting off to the idea of said person(s) you wish to introduce. Tell one another everything you would do to this person. Maybe even go as far as you both teasing this person together. Build up the Fantasy and excitement. It will help you mentally prepare yourself. Plus it’s just downright fun.

If you are a couple that gets overly jealous. Maybe that’s something to put on the back burner. There are some people that get off on the jealousy aspect of it and that’s the part that turns them on.

Even if your extremely jealous. It’s an emotion like any other. What you do with the emotions makes all the difference. You can be jealous and take that jealousy and turn it into passionthat you take out on your partne. Or it can sit and fester. Not to mention the fact that one you all agree to have these experiences then none of the following can be used in a fight, to be mean or degrade. That would be wrong. The point is to have fun and make memories.

Then there’s people like us. Who completely love and adore our partner s. Trust eachother with every fiber of our beings and just want to see one another be pleasured by  eachother or at the hands of someone else it makes no difference. We just want to see eachother in  throes of passion and ectasy. And fulfill every fantasy that we may have down to every last detail.

It’s important that if you do decide to bring in other people you should discuss before hand what is or what is not acceptable with the third party.

So far we have only had one threesome and I made a list of all the things my partner and I would find acceptable for her to fuck another man. All three of us agreed on the list.

Threesome rules:

1: The woman’s comfort is at the utmost importance. And reserves the right to stop the session at anytime seen fit.

2: I myself reserve the right to stop the session at anytime I see fit.

3: There are no sleepovers. You are a whore at our disposal.

4: There is absolutely no kissing my partner on the lips. EI: No tongue in her mouth aswell. Kissing or biting on the neck is acceptable if I see it fit or ask for it. But only if I ask for it.

( Kissing on the lips in my eyes is an extremely intimate moment you share with someone. And it is not to become confused with sex. This is actually a commen rule that it of people have. For us it only applies to the opposite sex. )

5: A condom must be worn by you when you during intercourse at all times. No exceptions.
6: If ever we engage in double penetration it is her wishes that I be the one to be inside her anus.
7: She asks if possible to simultaneously finish on her face.
8: Roughness is permitted such as:
Choking, Hair pulling, Ass smacking, Hard grip on the ankles/wrists, Pulling on her leash if she is wearing a collar and leash, Deepthroat/gagging

9: She permits that if we engage in gay/Bisexual activity. We are permitted to.

Kiss and tongue one another ( she wants to get herself off to that. ) Fondle and feel one a other upPreform oral on one another, Anal if the mood is right. Protected with no exceptions10: All parties must be in agreement of all rules, limits and demands with absolutely no deviation from them.

And parties must be clean, showered, trimmed and respectful.

This was our first list and we will draft a similar one when it comes time to me being with another woman.

The people we are doing this with are close friends of ours. Now some would say not to use close friends, just incase things get awkward and go awry. But to go out and find yourself couples and other third-parties. We felt like it would be more comfortable and convenient for us to choose a person we knew and trusted for this first time experience.

With that being said.

Have fun, be safe. Contact me! I’d love to hear and share some of your experiences.

Sincerely:

Silent Poet.

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