I always find myself curious as to why I am attracted to so many different things.
Why my fetishes make me tick the way the do. And I can honestly say that I have many.

Such as:

BBW, being an acronym for ( Big Beautiful Women ) , Large or Plus-sized women.
Muscular, Bodybuilding type woman.
Podophelia ( A sexual attraction and desire for feet. )
Tease and Denial.
Lactating women.
Squirting women.
Submissive women.

These are just a few of my main ones, there is way more. I thought it would be cool to get a little nerdy, do a little reading and try and get a little nerdy to try and figure out why.
For today I thought I would start with plump, voluptuous women.

I have always been open about my “thirst” if you will for big women. Plus-sized, BBW, Large.Whatever you wish to label it, wide hips and beautiful thick things. Obviously within the fetish itself there are many subsets.There are those such as myself who just fall at the sight of a well rounded curvy woman. This is not to say that I do not find average-sized
or petite women sexually attractive or that I cannot appreciate their beauty. There are just certain attribute that can attract me from a mile away, as I am sure we all those.

Here are some of the reason I found as to why.

Why do you like Bigger Women?

Culture –
Physical attraction is of course an individual thing, but a physical ideal is often the product of a particular culture. In many cultures, the ideal female figure is more curvaceous, and men from those cultures are naturally more attracted to women who fit that image. In other cultures a larger figure could also represent affluence ( being wealthy or well off. )

Biology –
From a physiological standpoint, the female figure throughout history had been viewed from the perspective of one’s child-bearing characteristics. Wider hips and larger bosoms indicated fertility, strength and nursing capabilities.

Memory –
Some men might have a preference for larger women based on a psychological attachment to a strong female figure in their early lives. The physical dimensions they seek in a mate reflect the level of influence or control that figure had on them in their formative years.

Mother –
In the same way that many cultures have valued women for their ability to bear children, some men choose women in an attempt to replace their own mothers. Their physical preferences are rooted in the aforementioned idealized maternal image.

Fidelity –
Some men choose larger women based solely on the pretext that, as such, these women would be less likely to cheat on them. Their logic goes that a larger woman will be less attractive to other men, thus ensuring her fidelity. What this says about such a man’s self-image and his view of the opposite sex could fill a book.

Insecurity – Some men choose larger women because, like the men described above, their preference is rooted in self-doubt. Their insecurity about their own appearance draws them to women whom they regard to be physically less-than-ideal themselves, and so won’t be rejected for their own shortcomings.

Modern – Modern culture has recently begun to once again celebrate the zaftig female form. The prevalence of plus-size women in pop culture has changed a lot of minds regarding physical attraction.

Compatibility – A predilection for plus-size mates might in some instances simply be a matter of physical compatibility. Large men would logically be expected to gravitate toward large women, closer to their own dimensions.

Attraction – There are men who just like “something to grab onto”, as they say. They find the substance of a larger woman more sexually appealing and satisfying. Women with curves look like women, which leads us to our next observation …

Different – As the French saying goes, vive le différence! Men are attracted to those attributes of the opposite sex that make them different. An hourglass figure is synonymous with femininity, and so is naturally appealing to those who do indeed celebrate how our genders compliment one another.

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